all Im wondering is why would she feel exhausted, neglected , humiliated? I understand I didnt spend much time , and I dont really talk. But did she ever put herself in my shoes? How about when she would harass me to make more money, 60k a year wasnt cutting it for her expense. If i didnt find a better job or make something about it she would leave me. I had to get a second job in order to meet her needs. Of course i wont have time ! I am only human i get tired from working everyday of the week. What about when she would say me working didnt mean nothing because she had to tell me to do it? Thats not humiliation?