First, so sorry about the kitty. Hugs to you. On the date front, I TOTALLY understand all your reasons - particularly the whole slippery slope part. You just have to take it one step at a time and do what works for you.
I agree with what everyone above said that you seem strong and confident and moving ahead. It is hard, but there are many of us standing on the road ahead of you cheering you on.
I also totally understand your statement about getting you back. That has been the best part of all of this for me. I'm finally back and it feels good.
Good luck, Sotto, and keep on keepin' on!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
