Hi Lou, I'm pleased to read about the developments in your sitch. It sounds as though your H is willing to do whatever is needed to repair things. It sounds as though you have come a long way yourself in any case and can navigate the inevitable bends in the road to come. I noticed that your BD was a similar time frame to mine, so that's interesting too.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you guys. Best to proceed for now with low expectations, then everything positive that happens is a pleasant surprise...and you can shrug at anything else too.

Take care and good luck xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus