Johne, you are doing great. I know it's rough, I know how hard it is and I know that you will make it through it. It just takes strength and time. I implore you, to get the books and read them, read them again and again.

What helped me was I made lists and gave myself small rewards. If I went a day without texting/calling her, I would reward myself. If I went a week without thinking about her, I would reward myself, etc. It's all about the journey my friend.

Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016