I wish I could sit and write decent goals. But looking at your goals I'm kinda jealous. I can't even do anything out of the house. I'm so demotivated. So not in the mood to do anything.
Pulled this out of my thread to reply to you here.
It has taken several months for me to stabilize myself and be in a position to really think about what I want for me and for my kids. We are all on our own timelines, so theres nothing to be jealous about - youll get there soon enough, Im sure.
In the meantime, how about you set some goals for yourself? They dont have to be more than a few. Set what you want to do within the next week.
- spend 15 minutes a day doing something just for you - paint your nails? watch a trashy TV show? take a bath? - set a diet plan and plan meals for the next week - read one small book a day with each child before bed - go for one GAL type outing with the kids -- library? YMCA? Some local fall festival? - introduce yourself to one stranger