Hi Overcome, hopefully when he says stuff like that, you let him know you find it disrespectful and remove yourself from that conversation? There is no need for you to sit and listen to hurtful information like that.

As for dating, well of course it is up to you. But I noticed in another post you said you were struggling to get out at all just now. I think it is healthier to build up your own life to a happier place, where you have friends and activities you enjoy. Then from that place start to think about dating. JMHO though...

What goals are you working towards just now my friend?? xx

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