Really good advice, Painter. Part of my reason for fighting so hard to stay M, is because of the collateral damage to the kids...and mine are adults and hurting like crazy! I cannot imagine hand-offs...must be a unique torture for all concerned.

Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti