I was going through my old threads (I wouldn't recommend it) and, when my H starting softening and warming, I kept questioning it, but I somehow "knew" it was happening and it was. It's kind of like an A I guess...you just "know" it's happening.
Tty not to listen to his WORDS. My H threw daggers up until the bitter end. I think that your H's head is spinning and it's making him nauseous. Just like with my H, I think that he doesn't understand why he is having such good feelings for you (duh!).
My H made "chic magnet"-like comments too and they really stung but I never showed it outwardly. In fact, I would agree with him (as you did) and sometimes I would expand on the comment. I think this throws them off guard. I think this is a test in some way (maybe unconscious) to see if we are going to freak out. I believe, in some ways, they also get confused and start to question why we don't care that they are chic magnets. My H used to say that there were women all over him at work (is this a male ego thing?) and that, after our D, he was going to date some of them. I would say very enthusiastically, "Yes, I'll bet they can't wait to get their hands on you. What a great catch they'll have!" I think that H was shocked.
AS we all know now, patience, patience, patience. Congrats on the job sitch!!!
Christine
I am the master of creating positive energy and love in my own environment. I am the source of love in my life. It starts with me! This energy radiates from me! It gives me strength, courage, wisdom and grace!
