Originally Posted By: Painter
Originally Posted By: BT13
In one respect they make me hopeful, but in another they make me sad and jealous. Sad that I apparently am not worth fighting for in my H's eyes and jealous that someone else's spouse did.


No, someone else's spouse had a bit of character and the ability to change, and was therefore worth forgiving... That's how I see the outcome. If my H doesn't do the work to repair and improve our M, he's not worthy of me.


Yes, you are right. Love this!!


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015