Just a thought, but If he thinks it's too late why did he agree to go to counseling and to read the book? Also why would he admit that OW is not long term?
I just read on someone else's thread that with time many WHs do come back, but usually it's too late because LBS has already moved on.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015