H's e-mail that he used to communicate with OW is now completely empty (I saw what was there earlier). He acted as if he didn't remember the password, but I got suspicious because it was too empty - there would normally be some subscription e-mails in there.
He is not on FB at all, and is vocal about his contempt for it (that's how OW contacted him). He unfriended OW on my request. OW is posting on her own page all the time, but for business purposes mostly.
I landed on the thought that I can never control completely what he does, and I'd drive myself crazy chasing that rat through the maze. I'm trying to balance indifference with not being gullible.
IMO, it is completely naturally to wonder and worry and snoop - we're trying to protect ourselves from being hurt again, and that's a basic survival instinct.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
