And i hear you. If someone is not playing fairly, the best thing to do is to just stop playing. It's a waste to argue and what else can you do but wall off her critisism? Especially at this point.
Why be bogged down with the whys of their actions? (something I recognize is unhealthy but personally get consumed with). I have to say though, when you help me understand what's going on in my husbands mind, it makes me feel more at peace. It feels better for me to have empathy then anger. It also helps me me to empathize when I view him as a person with his own perception as opposed to someone that is merely a force of opposition.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
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