BT, I'm glad you had a good counseling session. I'm not surprised that H is stuck on D as long as he is in an active PA.

Did the boundaries about OW in your home come up?

Pain is really bad. I know both H and I have aches that make us grumpier than we should be.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17