I had another counseling session today. I feel like I am more confused now than before. It seemed like she was encouraging me to contact my H.
I feel like I am in a no-win situation with my marriage. He basically said the last time we talked that he didn't want to talk to me and un friending me on facebook kind of cemented the whole thing. So if I contact him, it will most likely just make him mad. If I don't contact him, will he just forget about me? Also, the longer we have no contact, the farther apart we grow from each other.
Does no-contact really help with the marriage, or does it just make the LBS feel better.
Looking back at our marriage, I would guess my husband's biggest complaint would be that I was not emotionally supportive enough. So is not contacting him just more of the same?
