Time to let go......how?

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Haven't had any discussions with wife regarding kids time yet. Did fall down a cheese less tunnel today though. I have not received anything from her regarding what she wants in separation since her getting some parents rework last week. I saw on her desk today that she started working on it. Made more reality set it. Didn't feel good even though I knew it had to come. Really hurt seeing two parts. The first is that she has written that we were separated since when she first told me she needs space. The second is that she wrote wanting to change her name back to maiden. Those hurt.
Few things I did see though that are going to be interesting. The first is the amount she claims to make from her dance instruction. I estimate almost double. She also believes she is going to care for the children before and after school still. So she believes that her lifestyle will remain the same and I will just pay for it! Sorry, on my days with children they will be my responsibility and that's that.

I guess she believes she will not have to work or do anything different.

I just need to push this out of my head and wait until she presents me with her wants and thoughts. I know this will get a little messy. Not sure what she is thinking with this.