Divorce due to be final Friday this week. What is she doing? Next day off on a 10 day vacation; cliched and predictable for the script these two self-centered adolescents are working from. Celebrating the demise of two families via their calculated plans. I'm sad and she is celebrating; on different planets at this point. Upshot is I get 10 days with my kids - best vacation I could ask for & nowhere else I'd rather be. Indications are that the OM may allegedly already be cheating on her and missing designated time with his kids, and flying through money he received from his divorce. Classy guy. I probably couldnt even tell my STBX that he may even be cheating - anger would only be directed at me. These are the people that she brought into our family and my kids now know. Wtf. I have the urge to send her a final note saying what are you doing,but I am quite sure it would do no good, though it would make me feel better, even if it would probably increase her contempt of me for now. Not really focused on saving marriage at this point - just need to relearn how to be me, and go from there.


Me44 WAW44
T22 M13
S10 S6
BD Aug 2014
PA Dec 2014;OM is divorcing,one D4, one S due Feb 2015 with Stbx wife
OM moves in with WAW Jan 2015
WAW file divorce Mar 2015
50/50 custody settled July 2015