confused newbie 2

[dday]

Being there while she is there, is hard for me. I want to hang out with her, but I do not want to just be friends. I analyze everything, and need to detach. But being with her for 5 ballgames, and a school thing is not going to allow me that this week. Plus, we have had L stuff, child support papers this week.

Obviously, I am confused. LRT says to be vague, listen, validate. It would be a huge 180 for me to not go tonight. I need to get me back, before I can get the R back. Trying to figure out how to apply LRT. Struggling with that.

And yes, I am a fixer. I have a lot of work to do there.