Thanks Job and Judy.

I have to try keep reminding myself of that. We are now on pleasant speaking terms and doing effectively co-parenting. Interestingly, one of the main reasons she said it was over was because we didn't agree on how to raise the kids.

As much as I want to try to hold her hand, hug her or kiss her, I am going to refrain and if we start spending time together, I am going to let her make the first move.

As far as patience goes, I usually have very little, but I am going to be patient now because this is a huge step and it is better than I thought it would be.

What she admitted to me was huge, but I know it is only scratching the surface and there is a lot of work to be done. Even she said that.

Last edited by Clay234; 09/23/15 01:39 PM.

Me 52
ExW 45
D1 26
S1 22
S2 18
D2 17

M-17
T-18

Divorce final-10/09/15