Wife left, and I've only made it worse.

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Johne, you really need to pick up these books we keep telling you about. They will help you get through this, you are stronger than you think. It is a horrible situation you are in, but guess what buddy? We have all been there! You have an incredible support group here who all want to see you through this. Heck, shrinks charge a fortune for this kind of advice and you can get it for free.

I implore you, get the books, read them, things will make sense. Set up an action plan. It's all about baby steps. Make a list of things that are important to you and set goals. Even as simple as "I won't call her today" can be a goal. It does get easier.

Also read up on the 180 technique. It's what has brought my WW back around to some extent. She asks now what I am up to and doing, I fill her in, not everything mind you, just bits and pieces. She is interested, but you know what? I don't even think I want her back anymore. I am quite happy where I am. I am going on 10 months of this and I have been content for the last 3 or so (I think, lol). It get's better but only you can make it happen. Keep your head up buddy.