So I come home tonight from work and WW is sitting parked in the driveway. I asked her what was going on, since it was an unexpected visit and she said that S18 was complaining of being sick so she had brought some medicine. It was nice of her to do that, but then she tried starting a conversation, asked how I was doing. I said "have you checked on the kids yet" and started walking into the house, pretty much ignoring her question. She followed me inside, and I went about my normal routine of checking on all the kids, then starting to clean the house, paying no attention to WW.

She hung out for a few minutes, talking here and there, but I didn't have much to say, and it wasn't even me trying to DB, I really didn't want to talk with her. I probably even came across a little cold, but I don't know what she expects, given how she dropped the D papers on me just a few days ago. It's like she wants to pretend everything is just fine. So I could tell she was feeling unwelcome, so she only stayed around 10 minutes and left.

Then a few minutes after she leaves, I get a TM saying she needs current proof of insurance for her car. I reply asking if she's had a chance to look through that jewelry box she took w/o asking and locate my wedding ring. About 30 minutes later I get another TM that she found the ring and would like to get the insurance. Funny how I've been asking for that ring for weeks and she never "had time to look" but suddenly when she wants something, and I held that over her, she jumped right to it. Have to say, I don't even like WW as a person right now. She probably thinks she's going to nice me into giving her what she wants on child custody, but is in for a rude awakening. I'm just waiting for the drama train to go off the rails again after she realizes the giant pile of crap she's gotten herself into.

So other than that little unplanned and unpleasant visit from WW, my day not too bad. Going out golfing again tomorrow afternoon, then meeting a new friend for lunch Thursday, and an old college buddy on Friday night. The days are getting easier to get through, and I'm really just ready to get through the whole D process and have things settle into a regular routine.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.