Saw W for lunch today, though mostly saw spew monster. Was told today that I pushed into her to living with OM, gave her no other choices. I told her I thought that was utterly ridiculous. She had many other options once she decided to leave, it was her decision to go to him, not mine. Don't put that on me. She also told me that she would give OM up if it meant she could have the kids, I told her I would go for that. Told her to get out of his place and get out on her own. We could discuss joint custody of the kids, a 50/50 split, perhaps even more in her favor. At the moment, the boys want nothing to do with her, S16 has yet to go to her apartment. S18 has flat out told her that he will never see OM again in his life. S20 wants nothing to do with her and OM. I pointed out that yes, I want a successful marriage with her but my first priority is her health and that my children have a mother. If I have to sacrifice a M with her for that, so be it. She fumed for a while and then started with the "You made me go to OM" speech. At this point she is furious because a few of the boys have made it clear that so long as OM is in the picture, they won't really have a relationship with her. Seems like she wants to the boys to be happy that she left me, believe that it was the right decision and have OM celebrate father's day with my boys. They aren't going for it.
Other news. W and OM go in front of a judge at the end of the month for their eviction. Puppy is moving in with me today. She doesn't know where she is going.
I start the new job on Monday. It can't get here quickly enough.
M: 38 W: 37 T: 20 M: 19 Kids: Stepson?20, S19, S16, D12 BD: 02/19/2015 (She moved out) PA Confirmed: 02/22/2015 (She is now living with OM) Dazed and confused: 09/13/2015
