Exactly buddy. My WW doesn't believe she did anything wrong when she had her EA (possibly a PA, not sure). She blames me for it and refuses to look at it as a reality. Last time we got into a big fight about it, it was because she was making up stories why she left. I corrected people with the truth and even offered the OM's phone # along with name. When she found out she was livid, claiming I was ruining her "good name". I then pointed out "If you didn't do anything wrong, why are you so upset? I know you cheated, you know you cheated, everyone knows you cheated now..."
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016