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All she wants to do is fight and yell. Usually pulls me in and makes me fight with her.


Nobody can "make" you fight with them, if you refuse. Whenever things are volatile between a couple, it's best to keep distance.

Are you still contacting her? It sounds as if you are.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!