She knows that I have a boundary now, that I will not just be her friend.
What's the consequence if that boundary is not honored?
I'm not certain that you understand a boundary. Have you read the link?
How should you handle her moving her chair to sit by you at the games? Can you stand around, instead of sitting? Could you move around, visiting other parents in the crowd?
It's really about attitude. If you aren't interested, she'll know it. The best way to deal with a WW is to act non-affected by whatever she does. She doesn't turn you on. You are too busy watching and enjoying what's happening on the field. She's like a kid sister that follows you everywhere.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
