I have no idea what she is up to. I do my best to IGNORE her and detach. It's like she is a sticker cling on to my pants leg that I can't shake off. She chose this situation, not me.
And how are you doing lovely V? Updates please?
All quiet on the WH being visible on the turning up front. Bad news? He has made a habitation order to move back into the house. I countered with an non molestation order, I await the decision of the court. I filed D before the 5 year mark, making this a short marriage (just) cohabitation counts in the UK.
He has run out of money, and is seeking spousal support, my L says no chance, he must draw his pension instead.
So it's a game of chess. He turns up in the village to drink in his favourite water holes. Then drives drunk.
He has his own home, his own turf, he may be seeing the fishwife who has an open policy on her M and is many men's dream OW from easy street, she walks like it and dresses like it. A legend in her own drunken lunchtime. On the other hand it could be any other street walker, H isn't fussy these days.
I pay it no mind, his business, if anyone asks, I wish him well and that he gets that which he wants and needs. I leave it at that and just project rainbow love. I am praying for him and that he finds the hole in his soul filled by knowledge and self understanding.
I think of you often and send my strength when I see you down. You are a wonderful inspiring mom, and I want you and your lovely children happy and well.
Smiling for you
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 09/22/1505:11 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW