As many before me have said "it is over when you say it is over." You can stop anytime you want. You do not have to let him make that decision for you.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."
He filed 50/50. Everything mutual. I see my L on Wednesday. It's done. I have no more hope. Once he's done he's done. He won't come back. .. my life will never be the same.
overcom -
It's time to live up to your name. Just because your life wont be the same, it doesnt mean it has to be WORSE. I believe that you can still turn things around, but it could be many months or years. You keep standing as long as you think you should.
But keep in your mind that change is not always bad. Use this time to grow and become the best you that you can.
Overcome, you know I am right here with you, right? I've gotten the D papers, OW is involved, all feels hopeless?
Personally, the past few days have been really hard for me, so I've been fairly quiet. I know this, though. My life will never be the same, but I will do everything in my power to make my life a good one - with or without him. I am working on myself, for me.
It's all I have right now. It's a really good place to start. Join me? Let's get stronger, better...