I do my thing with them, pick up., drop off's homework, meals, clothes washed, shopping just normal stuff.
Guess who has been at school this week in the mornings before the bell rings - yep. Urgh. I just do my usual, I volunteered to clean the classroom today for D6. Wife hangs around playground and tells kids how much she misses them etc...
On her weeks I DON'T DO THIS. I don't want to confuse or upset the kids. I guess there is nothing else I can do but ignore it. She still calls many many times during the day. Most of the time I let it go to VM. She see's them a lot during the week, soccer practice, soccer games, now she is showing up at school in the mornings at drop off's.
Please tell me when this gets better and when she just backs off. Or is it something I just have to live with. We only nod at each other and then go to different parts of the school.
Is being silent a bad thing? In my mind saying nothing is better than saying something bad. So, I don't say anything. I sincerly do not want to get into an argument, get sucked into any drama, none of that. So, again, I am just silent or just the perfuntory yes or no. Anything else is fodder to attack.
Is there another strategy that I can employ? I just want to move on, move past this unpleasantness and MOVE ON. Seeing her and being bombareded by constant calls and texts and VM's is getting to me.
