I up the ante with it and say she scoffs and gives an excuse or says something that will just hurt you.

Trying to reason with her isn't going to do any good.

Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016