I'm not going to do it but, the thought just crossed my mind to say to XF... "Have you had enough of this nonsense yet? Are you ready to sit down and work past the bumps in the road we had and pave this thing for smooth sailing? Enough is enough lets get past this and live our lives together!"

God I would love to say that right about now!

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home