W is not slowing or stopping the D. W is trying to be friendly, and seems like she is opening up more.
Therefore, I keep detaching and LRT, right?
I know it has only been a few days. I have 180 in standing up for myself, being a little happier-appearing much happier and confident, started GAL, quit doing a lot of the nice H type things. Trying to be an even better dad. Listen more, validate more, offer no advice or opinion unless asked. Volunteer nothing, in talk or actions.
Possible consequences that she sees: Financial (2nd hand store comment, baseball training cost) Her friends aren't as close to her now (the ones she put ahead of our marriage) Kids are constantly asking when we will be a family again, and S4 is acting up. She will lose me completely, once I have had enough ------------------------------------------------ How should I handle it next time she comes to sit with me? I have told her that I will not be just a friend, unless she wants to work on us, yet she did it anyway. I don't want to ask her if she is ready, I don't want to stop it if it is a baby step, BUT I don't want her to think that I wont stick to my boundaries.
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
