We have done marriage counseling & finished... Then we fell off the working on the marriage wagon. I suggested we go back to help us resolve the problem we were having & H said he'd not go back to MC again. And frankly, we spent all our savings on MC the first time so we have no money for it again.

Things have been good though... Feeling positive and strong. H is doing well to meet my needs (& I am meeting his). I know I am on an up & will have some downs but hopefully I can work to not lose my head in the future down times... Those times of doubt & insecurity.


T: 14 M: 12
D: 9 S: 6
BD: 2/18/15 (H affair)
Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15
Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15
H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15
H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15