Thanks guys,
I did not have any discussion or communication about the instance last night. we had a busy evening and it flew by. I plan on drafting a sample of either a text or email about this and running it by here first. I may have it as a discussion with her instead, but writing down my thoughts first helps me. I must admit, i am nervous about having it as a discussion as i am still fearful of her bringing things up about the separation. Not that avoiding it will keep it from happeneing, but I dont want my emotions or feelings getting sucked back into the bad place.

be back soon looking for thoughts.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15