TK
I feel we are in the same spot currently. I also belive the Separation must happen for any chance of us reconciling or not. I will not be the one to help it along though, i will not move out, etc..She needs to do this.
Interesting about the faith. I recently started back in church and i almost lose control of feelings every week. I wish she would fine her way to church and here the messages, but that is her journey now.
It does sound you are growing stronger, keep it up

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15