I tested the waters before I was ready honestly. She was out dating and I knew I would have to try to do the same. I think I went out for the first time within a month of her leaving. Which was a mistake. Took some "me" time and then started again a few months after that.

I currently have a girl I date exclusively. We are not serious, but are "exclusive" which is nicre. My WW is aware of her and is also jealous of her to some extent.

You will know when it's time.

Oh as for caving, my WW temp checks me all the time to see if she still has that option. It drives her crazy when I refute her advances.


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016