I think Mutatio was asking about a financial safety net.
You can vent here. I think it's best to keep family out of it.
Remember that affairs have a tendency to burn themselves out. Let Mr. Selfish make his own idiotic mistakes and reap the consequences. Do what you need in order to take care of you.
Ah, Judy, mutatio. No financial safety net. H is the only one with savings and retirement plan. My small income has always been supplemental to help with the bills not completely covered by his paychecks. And seeing as my positions, while overwhelmingly time consuming, have always been categorized as per diem and part-time, I did not qualify for any retirement plans with my companies. What a silly fool I have been.
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