Mesher orders are made usually so the children can stay in the family home, it preserves capital when one can't buy the other out.
The reason I know this is that there are tax consequences in the UK in settling divorce cases in a different tax year to the divorce. These orders make the tax disposal of the property at the time of the order ie at the same time as the divorce, thus in the same tax year thus avoiding any tax issues. They are clever way of working settlements.
It's sane to get it all settled now. WW may change her mind down the road about her sitch, my WH has done so and is seeking cash.
Get L help for you and WW to brace this and at least that worry disappears.
U it's likely this OM won't last, that's not the stats, as long as it does WW wil feel safe. So I hope it will stick for a while longer at least until the D is final and the settlement rubber stamped. Being single may force WW from her comfortable illusion but could be troublesome in the D area. Especially if WW is set on D. If I thought it might wake her to piecing my view would be that OM and WW breaking up would be excellent. I am saddened that WW still has a long journey to herself. I know that U will be stable for his boys.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 09/22/1507:38 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW