Hi Defacto, that sounds fair enough to me. And you applied the important measure. How will I feel about all of this in the longer term.

I think probably what to do next is carry on as you were. You made an overture from a place of strength and if your W wants to respond to that she will do...

Good luck with things xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus