I'm sure it feels good to have this guy in your corner. Sounds like he will make a good case for you. Sorry you have to go through this man. Nobody should ever have to. Your WW has a diseased mind and needs help. So sad. But I think you will be better off moving on. Easy for me to say though - I was married 4 years to your 18 years. Can't imagine what you're going through.
Me:29 W:27 M: 4 years T: 5 years No children S: 7/7/15 EA: 7/7/15 BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15 MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed) PA: 8/29/15 W Files for D: 9/9/15 D will finalize in 60 days