Let's All Be Like Coffee

[V2pt0]

Just got back from two hour discernment counseling. I actually thought is was pretty good and useful, though I think H is pretty stuck on D. That being said, he has agreed to go to another two hour session in a couple if weeks. The C was very pro-marriage and felt like she really chimed in and contributed in some really good ways to help H see different perspectives on ways to move past this. H was engaged and open during the session. It was a very calm, though a times an emotional conversation (mostly me). There was no yelling or arguing from either of us and there were even a few laughs. I do feel the next session will be a good opportunity to showcase best self and DB. I think on of the topics are positives we each contributed to M. Plus, I think it will help us remove some of the hostility on both sides moving forward with D process, which will allow for more DB opportunity. There are still 6 months before D is finalized. A lifetime in DB and the gift of time.

He has been given assignment to read Love Sense, which he agreed to do. Any thoughts on that book? I have to read After the Affair. Will post more insights gleaned from session tomorrow. Need a glass of wine now.