I definatly think it's the right thing to help your wife when she is sick. Personally I would even follow up by asking if she is feeling better or if she needs anything else. She is the mother of your child and her health is crucial. Plus if a sick neighbor reached out you would help them right?
I like your 180 on negativity..,.something I struggle with as well
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015