I am so sorry you are going through this. I am the same age and i have two young kids like you. I know how hard this is. Just remember it is only paper. Get a good L and fight for you and your kids.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."