so, the meeting with the L went well. I got some good information and it wasn't at all as bad as I thought it would be. I agree with you guys. I wont tell the W. I t was however sobering to see what my finances will look like. The good news is that I am not responsible to keep her in the same house. The house will have to be sold if I so choose to sell it. Thanks you all for the support.
M:39 W:40 S:10 S:7 D:12 BD:3/5/15 Separate BR:3/5/15 W moved out with kids 1/3/16