All of the families that we hung out with before S, have started to shun us. They are all relatively happy, with no Ds. Since she filed, and it became public knowledge, the Ws no longer sit with her at ball games, etc. Maybe a coincidence, maybe not.
They, and her family, were all on the side of keeping the marriage. Lately, W convinced her parents that she hasn't been happy in years, and I think in doing so, convinced herself more. Rewriting history.
I found that almost all of my friends from before BD decided that divorce was contagious and backed as far away from both of us as possible.
Thankfully, Ive made a bunch of new friends since BD that dont know me as "the divorced one".