Huge progress that she is sharing this stuff with you and asking your advice. I think that part of it can be taken as positive. As far as the Spew Monster v Spew Monster action, I imagine that would not be fun to witness.
M: 38 W: 37 T: 20 M: 19 Kids: Stepson?20, S19, S16, D12 BD: 02/19/2015 (She moved out) PA Confirmed: 02/22/2015 (She is now living with OM) Dazed and confused: 09/13/2015