Quick question: Are you guys paying for the D proceedings? We'll have a bill of about $1200 from the lawyer and I'm now wondering why exactly I should pay half of this D that I never wanted. It seems inflammatory though to announce that I'm not paying half.
STBX has agreed to pay all the legal fees out of his half after division. I had discussed this with my L and he felt it was a reasonable request considering the disparity in our income. However, what I said to STBX was, "You want it, you pay for it." He agreed.
