Hi Late, thanks for posting and for thinking me wise smile I think you are right about the 'interested in reconciliation' thing - that' the crux of it I think. TBH, I'm avoiding the attractive guy at work just now...and getting my head around it all.

I had another email from H today. He wrote empathetically about the cat, and how hard it must have been. We lost another cat together and he mentioned how difficult that was. It was a nice message.

He also updated me about the house. We have someone who came back for a second viewing but have a property to sell. They asked to be notified if anyone else makes an offer. So, we have two parties interested, but both with a place to sell. Sounds promising and I suspect only a matter of time until we get an offer.

I think H is initiating a little more lately. I recently went a month without making any contact with him and then he initiated. I wonder if his cage was a little rattled perhaps? I know it doesn't pay to wonder though. The lack of progress with D is a bit of an 'elephant in the room' in our exchanges. Neither of us mentions that. I'm just coasting right now, and I think the house sale will bring the financials to a head at some point soon, which is fine.

Other than that, all is well. My little upcycling project was a table. Bought for a fiver and reinvented with chalk paint and Orla Kiely paper. It was done in loving memory of my kitty and now has pride of place in my lounge.

Have a great Monday all xx

Last edited by Sotto; 09/21/15 05:52 PM.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus