Stay open Heavy. Keep your heart open in spite of the [censored] that's being thrown at you. It is the highest form of revenge and will serve you long beyond the conclusion of your situation.
Your W sounds like she is still bypassing her own enormous pain by being unkind to you. See that for what it is - her screaming out in the only way that she can - with meanness.
Sending you love and strength.
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17