I just caught my self up on your thread. WOW. I really envy you and where you are. I kow i am just reading what you write but you seem so calm and collected with everything.although it seems i get better at this everyday, i still feel like i slip back and go through the rollercoaster again. I know living in the same house probably causes this. I am thinking about making a big step today with setting some boundaries and schedule with W and it scares me as it is moving things forward. Any advice and best of luck.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15