A fool is right. Actually that was what he said when he woke up that day--he seemed really mad at himself. I believed him--and still kind of do for that incident, but who knows.
I decided to just delete his last text and not respond. There is no way I can respond to that general text. If I try setting a boundary by telling him I don't appreciate being left hanging, then it looks like I am heartbroken and clingy. If I respond with a curt "hello" then it looks like I accept how he has handled the situation--which I don't. So I will be equally rude and just ignore until he goes away or actually texts something that encourages conversation, rather than just throwing out fishing lines.
Ugh. Is this what I have to look forward to with my new single status?
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17