HI Zeus. If I knew 100% we would never get back together I would want to be best friends who had open communication. Talked a few times a week hung out with the kids ect. I would not want to never talk to him again. I would not want things to be awkward. A part of me feels like that because of his family being my family. I do not want people to have to choose. Plus he has been my best friend for many years I do not want to just throw that away.
V I am glad you are still reading. Yes the thing with my dad was weird. I chocked it up to he was never that way as a kids never supportive never even a good job it was all about what we did wrong. Now that I am sitting her thinking about it I feel I tend to be that way towards my D8 always looking at the negative. This is a very important 180 I need to consider.
